April 2009
A very precious chapter in Zane’s life began. He started school formally, not in a mainstream school but in a special school, an autism centered special school. We waited for months for a place in this school. We are very thankful when Zane was accepted.
What amazed me further was his very first teacher at the school. She is a veteran in this special field. She had helped many children and people with various special needs. The first meeting with her was a huge assurance that zane would be in great hands and he was.
At 6yo, Zane was very challenging. His sensory issues were tricky. I was very thankful that A is very experienced and skillful. Zane floored numerous times in school anywhere and anytime. Anything could upset him big time then and his meltdowns were horrendous. If A allowed me to intervene, I would just beat the daylights out of him and force him to comply. She took charge, all the time. She gestured me to stay where I was. She handled Zane professionally and even tried to establish the links to his meltdowns.
There was a period Zane refused to get out of the car once he reached school. He was too strong for grandpa to drag to the school gate as he was a very strong boy by then. Teacher A walked the extra miles, literally, she came out to the carpark, went to Zane who could be lying on the carpark floor (and school buses would be streaming in by then), and calmly directed Zane up. He walked with her willingly into the school. What she did for Zane touches me deeply even till today. She considered the boy’s and his grandpa’s safety. She did this beyond her call of duty. It is our responsibility as caregivers to bring our charges right into the school compound.
Teacher A not only taught my son well, she also imparted her skills selflessly to her trainee teacher. She taught Teacher M very well too. in this line, the best mentoring tool is one to one modeling . Seeing what is and can be done is the most effective . Seeing is powerful. A did that superbly and M caught on really fast.
I am forever thankful that zane’s first teachers are of such high quality and they teach with such great passion, drive and love .
Thank You, Lord, that You planned for A to meet Z. He is very blessed and through this, I know You care and love zane deeply. Thank You !