All of a sudden, all the three children have grown much.
Half a year has passed and this year moves forward at an amazing speed.
At the end of last year, many friends congratulated me that I would be sitting for my PSLE this year. I welcomed 2013 with a tinge of uncertainty and anxiety, I have to confess.
Zoe had gone through two school terms as a Primary 6 student. I can testify that she is one of the most relaxed PSLE students I have come across thus far. She is not worried over the piles of homework whenever they are dished out to the class. She paces herself fairly well and I usually see her completing all that is required by Saturdays. It has been highlighted to her that Sundays are the Lord’s Day and we rest on Sundays and hopefully she gets to rest too from her work.
Interestingly, as the months progressed, I see Zoe trying to finish up her work even by Thursdays and Fridays. Her teachers at times give the weekend homework on Wednesdays and Thursdays and they are required to hand in the work on the following Mondays. Given this flexibility, I am happy to see her learn through her own experiences that starting on her work early reaps benefits.
As for this June holidays, she had PSLE classes in the first week of June, yet she managed to finished everything dished out to the class by the end of the week. I found myself constantly finding work for her to do over the next 3 weeks.
Thus, I am glad to say that this PSLE preparation year isn’t that stressful for us both after all. That said, it does not mean that there is no pressure. When Zoe received her SA1 Math Paper 2 results, she cried silently in class. She wanted to do as well as those who did well, she knows that she could have gotten the same marks as them but she did not due to two questions. It took me a while to talk her out of this disappointment. She only cheered up when she received her marks for Paper 1.
Through this, Zoe learnt many lessons. This is a good growth in the emotional aspect for this child.
Over the last couple of months, some friends asked how has the PSLE preparation been for Zoe thus far. My replies are not the usual type and I can tell that they give up in continuing the whatsapp chats. They just want me to speak the same languages as them and have a lamentations party or complaints session. I refuse to be engaged in such futile conversations. I have many other responsibilities to fulfll in the house. They can find other fellow PSLE moms to hold their pity parties, heehee …….
Truth revealed, this entry only leads me to recognise one thing. That is, the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, as Zoe and I bring our requests to Him in faith. Amen. We both are seeing this fulfilled. We are thankful.
In Your Hands, we commit, O Lord! Amen!